Monday, December 24, 2007

Decision Time...

Why is it that marriage is such a complicated thing for us Muslims these days? As it is the thought of marrying the right candidate consumes half our time and gives us gray hairs before we even tie the knot. Then, on top of that, we have parents who become an impossible obstacle in wanting something HALAL for ourselves!

Here is a good youtube flick reflecting what kind of nonsense can be made out of something that is actually a commandment from God to His slaves for satisfying a natural urge/need in a perfectly legal way.

More on this later...


Anonymous Smooth Operator said...

*Waiting for more on this*

December 24, 2007 10:51 AM  
Blogger i*maginate said...

Decisions, decisions... :P

Wish you the best. Not only words, but thoughts too.

December 26, 2007 1:36 PM  
Blogger Veiled Muslimah said...

I just leave it to Allah subhanna wa ta'ala. Although I can empathize with you about how you feel when it comes to making decisions related to this matter.

Baba Ali is funny, I like the way he tackles problems related to the Muslim Ummah with a tad bit of humour being added in the mix.

Hopefully everything will turn out for the best Insha'Allah.

December 26, 2007 2:03 PM  
Blogger the real nick said...

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December 27, 2007 12:00 AM  
Blogger the real nick said...

Choose a bride with a good sense of humour.

That's an essential trait of a Mrs.Al-republican-to-be.

December 27, 2007 12:01 AM  
Blogger rosh said...

Keep everything aside - follow your heart with some guidance from the mind.

Good luck Al - quite honestly, am in the same boat as you. If I get it right, I'll let you know :)

December 27, 2007 1:31 PM  
Anonymous Smooth Operator said...

Oh well, i'm just waiting for my business tycoon to come back ...

December 27, 2007 2:00 PM  
Blogger al-republican said...


Thanks for the good wishes. I hope it goes good for you. All I can say is that parents eventually come around. Unless they are my parents, hehe :(

Best of luck to you too.

December 28, 2007 1:22 AM  
Blogger rosh said...

Hang in there Al, and listen to your gut. Parents shall always come around - and yup, I relate (a LOT) to what you say :)

December 29, 2007 9:48 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Agree with veiled-eventually-"whats going to hit will hit you and whats going to miss you will miss you" - so do the right thing and leave the rest to Allah.

And-as a good friend always says - in a 100 years-it wont matter either way.

-TruthTeller (youknowwho)

December 30, 2007 2:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

why even marry man?
make love and make merry :)

December 30, 2007 6:43 AM  
Blogger the real nick said...

Happy New Year, Al. Chin up, eh!

January 02, 2008 3:33 AM  
Blogger i*maginate said...

*Al romantican, I sincerely request a post on your view on love & marriage

Waiting, i*

January 18, 2008 9:10 PM  
Blogger i*maginate said...

Al romantican, where you at? No seriously, I would love to read your views on love and marriage...I know you have done in different ways, but was just wondering if you have any other views on them...

January 20, 2008 12:58 AM  

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